People struggle with getting rid of things for several reasons. First, they already paid for said item. Second, the item has typically not been worn or used so it’s still in good, like new condition. That’s why many people can’t bear to let go of “perfectly good” things.
While that might sound like a viable excuse for not parting with an item, the real reason is admitting it was a mistake to buy it in the first place. And that’s based solely on the fact you hardly ever wore or used the item.
Accepting that fact, though difficult, opens the door to many wonderful new discoveries:
The joy of giving things away versus owning more.
- Giving back to the community by literally giving back your under-used items (e.g., donating books to schools and libraries; clothing and other household goods to local foster care organizations, shelters, and your local food pantry).
- Creating space -This can be as simple as setting up a box, closet or room to place your donation items. Be sure to remove them from your house often.
- Experimenting – This can be an exercise as simple as removing items from a room, let’s say your bathroom, and see how often, if at all you need those items in a week’s time. The results may surprise you and enable you to create even more space.
The most important exercise in giving up “perfectly good” stuff is to remember what you are getting in return. In other words, your why.
If you start to get discouraged, focus on why you are giving perfectly good things away. Be with it. Breathe it in. Remember, you’re giving up the good so you can be your best.
If you need help with your “perfectly good” things, please give me a call at 508-246-6120 or drop a line.
